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Are You An Overthinker?

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By Melli O’Brien

Do you ever find yourself lost in racing thoughts, worrying about things that haven’t even happened yet? Do you spend hours replaying past mistakes, second-guessing decisions, or stressing about your problems?

Thinking through our challenges, planning for the future, and reflecting on the past are all essential parts of life. But when thinking turns into overthinking, it stops being helpful and starts feeling like a trap: keeping us stuck in cycles of worry, self-doubt, low moods and mental exhaustion.

Maybe you lie awake at night, tossing and turning as your mind runs in circles. Maybe your days feel heavy with stress, as if you’re carrying an invisible weight. Overthinking can make problems seem bigger than they are, drain your energy, and cloud your ability to take clear action.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Overthinking is one of the most common mental habits that fuel anxiety, stress, and low self-worth. But the good news? It’s a habit you can break. Here are three simple, research-backed strategies to help you break free from overthinking and bring clarity back to your mind.

  1. Set “office hours” for your thoughts
    Overthinking often tricks us into believing we’re solving problems when, in reality, we’re just replaying the same worries over and over. Instead of letting your mind run in circles all day, try setting dedicated “thinking time”: 10 to 15 minutes a day where you take time to think through your concerns, map out next steps and play out possible scenarios.

    During this time, you can:

    ✔ Write down your worries and identify which ones actually need action.
    ✔ Think about any problems in your life and what different approaches you could take to work through them.
    ✔ Clearly identify what you can influence in your life and then let the rest go.
    Once your thinking time is over, remind yourself: “I’ve already given this problem/worry my attention. Now I can let it go.”

    If worries pop up later, gently redirect your focus back into the present moment and what you are doing. Remind yourself that you’ll address them in your next scheduled session. This technique helps train your brain to engage with thoughts on your terms, and in truly helpful and empowering ways rather than allowing them to hijack your attention all day.
  2. Name it to tame it
    A big reason overthinking feels so overwhelming is that we take every thought seriously. But here’s the truth: just because you think about something doesn’t mean it’s true, useful, or worth your attention.

    Cognitive research shows that the brain tends to inflate fears, exaggerate problems, and fixate on the negative—all in an attempt to keep us safe. But most of these thoughts are just mental noise, not accurate reflections of reality.

    To break free from this trap:

    ✔ Name what’s happening—When you catch yourself overthinking, label it: “This is overthinking, not problem-solving.”
    ✔ Zoom out— Remind yourself, “Not all thoughts are facts. This is just my mind prattling on.”
    ✔ Shift perspective— Ask yourself, “What would a wise guru, helpful coach or loving friend say to me about this situation?”

    By learning to observe your thoughts rather than believe them, you create space between you and your overthinking—making it easier to let go and find a more helpful way to relate to what is happening.
  3. Shift from thinking to doing

    One of the fastest ways to break free from overthinking is to stop analyzing and start acting. Overthinking thrives on inaction—keeping us stuck in doubt, indecision, and endless mental loops. The longer we sit in uncertainty, the harder it feels to move forward.

    To counter this:

    Ask yourself, “What is within my control in this situation? What’s one small step I can take right now (to support myself or improve my situation)?”

    Take action, no matter how small—even a tiny step in a positive direction interrupts the cycle of overthinking and helps you feel more empowered, hopeful and resilient.

    Focus on progress, not perfection—waiting for the “perfect” solution or situation only fuels more overthinking. Practice making peace with the way things are, at the same time as taking action that supports your happiness, wellbeing and thriving.

    Small consistent progress like this will shift your mindset from worry mode to solution mode, giving it something concrete to focus on. The more you practice taking small steps forward, the less power overthinking will have over you.

Final thought: Overthinking is a habit – and you CAN break it

Overthinking doesn’t make life easier—it just makes it harder. But the power to change this habit is in your hands. By setting boundaries for your thoughts, learning to step back from mental noise, and shifting from overanalysing to action, you can retrain your mind to work for you, rather than against you. The more you practice these techniques, the more mental space you’ll create for clarity, confidence, and ease. What’s one thought you can choose to let go of today?


Melli O’Brien is a best-selling author and internationally renowned mental health educator and coach. She has spent nearly two decades helping people develop mental strength and her work has helped over a million people. Her new book, Deep Resilience, shares a simple four-step method to break free from overthinking.

As published in Peninsula Kids – Winter 2025

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